Unchanted words : Present

Life is in the present!

Open your eyes to see the present,

Your past was present and your future will be present

Because life is in the present, 

You can breathe to live

Your dream is present and your wish will be present

Because life is in the present

Yes, if you are present, then it's life..

Unchanted words : Change to change

Everyone is busy because our definition of the word idle is narrow,

Everyone is unhappy because our definition of the word happiness is shallow,

Everyone is sad because our definition of the word cheerful is mellow,

Everyone is struggling because our definition of the easement is darrow,

I hear these words busy, unhappy, sad and struggle from everyone.

I hear that life is hard and it’s not fair from everyone.

Think twice before we say these words busy, unhappy, sad and struggle.

Change the words, change the thoughts and to change your emotions.

It’s only a journey …….

Unchanted words: No fear

We fear, fear of failure

We fear, fear of death

We fear, fear of rejection

We fear, fear of loss

We fear, fear of hurting yourself or others

We fear, fear of uncertainty in life.

Nothing worse happens or everything worse happens.

Ultimately, we survive, we revive and we move on to the next moment.

So why to fear anything in life.

Let’s redefine fear which does no good. 
Let's there be no fear!

What really matters in child development?

I am on this journey to become a good mother. Yes, I am a mother of a two year old. I have my ups and downs.  I am reading about parenting, discussing with friends. I want to teach him empathy, to be humble and kind. I want him to learn to be happy and to live in the present. I want him to be healthy.  I  have a long wish list for him.  This wish list does not include anything about learning or study. I  am trying to put a lot of efforts to teach him all the values.  Every time I give him food or I am cooking for him. I start thinking about teaching him good eating habits. Giving him more nutritious food.  Yes, I feel stressed and overwhelmed about everything as a parent.

Now, I am contemplating on this thought what really matters in child development.  Actually, the most important thing matters is how I behave, eat, drink and do things.  Nothing matters, when I think about myself as an adult. How I ate and what I ate has shaped me?  Why I am obsessed with eating healthy food? What bad food I am eating and how much I am eating?  I am trying to understand that what’s going on within my world. What I eat is determined by many factors. For example, what I can buy around me cheap?  Next if I have a little more money,  then I can buy from a health food store or organic food.

I am a mirror for my son. At this small age, they  learn through repeating and copying. This thought has helped me to stop worrying and start changing/ improving myself. He will be empathetic, happy, creative and healthy. I ask myself these questions.  Am I happy? Am I empathetic or creative. If, I get answer positive, then I do not have to do anything. If no, then I have to use my time to improve. 

Happy Parenting.